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Gentleman_Casper is Was almost homeless again, got myself played~but crossed the country again & helped a battered wife. Finishing a novel now...with surprises!
I'm Gypsy, Cherokee, Irish & Spanish. A labyrinth in a Panda coating. The heyoka shadow-juster that shines in the darkness, for the service of Light. You wanna know more personally, hit me up...
Professionally I am a writer fueled by Earl Grey, fried chicken, and fury. I have come to accept the assertions that I am Poe incarnate, due to frightening life and personality similarities. Now I just live and rock it proudly. My pen is untamed; a tool of logic, intuition, and duality. I was inspired to be unabashedly blunt in my philosophical writings and expression by the legacy of Hunter S. Thompson. I have just enough give-no-fuck to make all my comedic heroes proud; but because I also admire and got into writing because of timeless works like Dracula, PTO, Frankenstein, and writers like Austen and more...I also have deeper, more varied projects and hopes. The pen can shape worlds, and if you become a master...it can help re-shape them as well.
Counselor of many; restorer of broken, tarnished or forgotten things~seller of antiques and exotics. Merlin of the Written and Spoken Word lol... and a slight bit of madman as well ;)
For me to know, and you to find out~if you can handle it,
Artist, Writer, Gypsy, Sunfox, Goth, Alternative, Intellectual, Random, Pagan, Beefy, Poet, Kung-Fu, Panda, California., Blue, Devit, Redemption, Angels, Cherokee, Phoenix, Thunderbird, Clown, Juggalo, Wicked, Wild, Untamed, Buddhist, Author, Heyoka, Shadow, Jester, Comedian, Madman, Joker, Philosophy.
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~I HAVE DECIDED TO RE-VAMP MY SCHEDULE INTO THINGS THAT CAN BE DONE FASTEST FIRST.
~WHILE I WILL NO LONGER COMMIT TO SPECIFIC DATES~REST ASSURED THEY WILL HAPPEN QUICKLY~GENERALLY IN THIS ORDER ;)
Set schedules are nice and all, so is NOT being homeless, and I got no choice but to dance with that rattlesnake at my own peril until my situation turns around~present venue and shot at that being through my pen. So if I gotta fill the inkwell with blood, sweat or tears...I'm writing red, and prayin' to change my course until it is!
~My poetry is off the shelf until Autumn, then I will be releasing a full set of Blue Devil Epics--many different flavors of literary awesomeness ;)
AS FOR OTHER PROJECTS:
~The re-release of my post-apocalyptic series first installment “A FUTURE IN LIMBO” will be out first:..
The letters of a conscripted ex-rebel fighter, to a possibly dead friend as he tries to stay sane. Set the aftermath of a plague, and open war with raiding organizations cannibals, and psychotic junkies. Doing his best to stay above water and start a life in this world and amid shady-dealings and more
~"LAWS OF MOTION & THE VIRTUES OF PUDDING" is a comedy project people have been after me to write for a while now. Ultimately based on the conversations between myself and a friend; it is mainly my nomad rules and philosophies to live by & marijuana-fueled.thought processes, tangents, and theories. While I learned created them under the worst conditions, they seem to be quite the humorous hit otherwise.
~”THE RADIOACTIVE MIND” I’m calling this a MUST-READ for all who truly take care and seek health and long, happy life in America. It is years of observation and research I never planned to put together in a book, all about where the future is headed and how it got there. My hope is to inspire the boundless possibilities of change we all possess. It is the jarring truths behind all that inspired the nightmare-dystopia of “A Future In Limbo.” Thank Hunter S. Thompson, Johnny Depp, and Wyclef Jean for inspiring the confidence in me to set it all loose on paper.
~"EPICS OF THE M.O.O" This comedic fantasy novella series is in tandem with my brother. It is so off-the-wall, random, wrong, and somewhat raunchy (with class) that all I can tell you is that it is centered around the journeys and efforts of two accidental and unwanted mages. I can promise you WILL laugh, and NEVER get bored. Just keep your eyes peeled for when I declare that one, it's worth it.
~”A NEVER SLEEPING LOVE” Is a truly unique-styled love story, centered around two lovers. One murdered, the other wanting to know the truth before and after she returns inexplicably…is she still the woman he loved, or is she a seductive body possessed? One merely posing as love & leading him to damnation? This was the book due out on Valentine's, but in light of some high-demand other projects, and a better marketing strategy, I will be releasing later on down the road, to help introduce and augment "The Lost Myths."
~”THE LOST MYTHS” is a collection of reinvented beings from Greek, Egyptian, and other mythologies. This will be out as soon as I can make a good cover...or find a good cover model? It will be out just before (or along with, haven't decided) with another re-write of mythic history VERY close to my heart; which is a surprise yet to come for all fantasy nerds, Pagans, and true Merlin enthusiasts ;)
KEEP A LOOKOUT AND SEARCH AMAZON OFTEN FOR “GYPSY J. SUNFOX” AND YOU WON’T BE DISAPPOINTED!
I love working with other creative minds; so if that peaks your interests, or you are looking for someone to collaborate with, hit me up at my email Gypsy.J.Sunfox@gmail.com with details on whatever you're thinking!
Hello hello again love. I hope you have an awesome week. Dont miss out on my new lovely red dress to nude at frozen waterfall set! I just love this one ♥ as well as my new mummy mommy set for the cosplay prize. Its interesting ;) But keep watching the pinup prize for my entry coming this week yaaay it came out perfect :D xoxoxoxo ♥♥
Thanks for voting for What to Read
I'd be happy to get cozy with your books when they come out! I love reading. :)
Thanks so very much for your 3 votes on What To Read! It is much appreciated.
Thanks so much for your friendship!
Have a lovely day,
If you ever need an editor let me know; I'm actually very good at it and would be happy to help anyone looking to work with the pen. It's just bad to self-edit because you always miss things lol. If you have any unfinished projects you would be interested in collaborating to finish email me, I LOVE working with good people on new things, it makes the writing so much more.
Absolutely gorgeous, I love your chest tattoo btw, I'm debating whether or not to get a sacred heart chest piece done.
Hey, you! Hope you are doing well. I wanted to let you know that my Comedian set is live :) And you should check it out! Let me know what you think - https://www.zivity.com/models/MissNatalieC/photosets/4
Hello love :* Its Friday! I hope you have a wonderful weekend and get a chance to enjoy my new Rising Venus set in the Goddess prize. Great new incentives love even one vote deems you worthy of my lil hello video <3 Don't miss out <3
I came, I saw, I voted ;0 lovely work darlin' I hope you are well, shoot me an email. I am back to work, I'm shooting to get done with a comedy book from start to finish in the next 24 hours. No rest for the wicked, and so rarely wicked in the funnest ways ;( lol Work, work, work...
Awesomeness love ;) your message is on its way. Goos luck with your comedy book <3
I took a break to network/promote, as my published book is presently free.
thanks for the add, how are you?
Thank you as well, for dropping by. I've been busy juggling projects and escapades lol. Though from now till the 25th I'll be losing myself in a post-apocalypse. Hopefully I'll finish early, and catch up on song-writing for some friends. And you?
Haha aw I wish you the best of luck!
I'm okay, wishing I could fall back asleep haha
if you find yourself unable to sleep again over the next couple days...my book is free for now ;)
Hey babe- have you seen my newest set? Check it out & let me know what you think xo :) https://www.zivity.com/models/TheBabyDoe/photosets/9
Happy Christmas Eve Darling! :) I probably won't be online again until after Christmas so I wanted to make sure I wished you a merry one now!! :) <3
Thank you very much, you as well.
Thanks sweetie! :) I hope yours was great!! <3
Oh hey...I was just emailing you back...I'm excited to check out your book! :)
Hope you're having a great weekend! If you'd like, take a look at my two latest sets and let me know what you think: http://www.zivity.com/models/minuitstorm/photosets/21 and http://www.zivity.com/models/minuitstorm/photosets/22
hello hello! thank you for the add dear!
Hello, good morning! Nice to meet you! You re quite the epic writer aren't you? Keep it up & swing by anytime!
I appreciate the compliment, thank you! Usually anything I post on here NOT business/project related is usually just my cryptic brain steam. Motion & promotion if you will, I need fans & folk to help get my books around in November when I start busting out to or three a month. On here I can be myself openly & honestly. So I post pretty regularly. Good to meet you too...back to work for me ;)
WHAT'S ON MY CRAZY MIND, IF YOU WERE INTERESTED LOL:
I realized something listening to music of my people. I can have a home, a circle/family, whatever you want to call it~but that doesn't change that I'm a Gypsy and never will. I am a union of impossibilities, a living storm, claimed by the Thunderbird. When I love, I love until it brakes me~when I'm lied to, I can't abide it, and never forget to be honest. I gave my heart to the Moon a decade ago, the earth grounds me, Wind moves me on, and Rain heals me better than anything. I've been the "Blue Devil" since I was 17; and that has become all that most can see because its almost all that's left. I can go through ghettos and Hells~shy of my homeland~and I still love the silver lining I find...because there's fathoms more than people imagine. Until someone can see and stand by me for the same reason~to see and make Heaven in each others eyes, no matter if even Hell surrounds...than nothing will keep me beyond the perpetuated moment. Nothing less matters, because nothing less is real. No matter who, this is WHO I AM, its who I've always been that's just the deal. Feliz Dia De Los Muertos ;)
Thank you so much for accepting my friend request!
Where can I read this poetry book for my inspiration? :)
Just Gmail me a promise of the property's safety & confidentiality in your custody at the above address, and I will email mail you a unpolished/unformatted copy back. However, I am SERIOUSLY OUT OF data on my phone lol, so depending when I get it, it may be after Halloween. But, hit me & I'll send back ASAP ;)
I LOVE THAT MY BABY NEPHEW STAKED HIS CLAIM TO MY SACRED THUNDERBIRD RING! <3
I knew he would, he has his father's soul, and hawks eyes~ some form of the Thunderbird path is in his destiny. Crow eyes see both sides, Eagle eyes see what's to come, hawk eyes see how to guide people to and through there, owl eyes show truth down to the soul & goals.When he finds his path, I give him my ring. I wear it because until I am granted my prayer for a true, passionate love & peaceful life~it's my only purpose.The Thunderbird restores/keeps balance in the world around them, they uphold the ancient/natural laws, harshly when necessary. Heyoka are chosen human family & representatives of that destiny on earth during their mortal life.
hey hun! thanks for being friends (: hope you have a great start to your week. stop by anytime! xox
Thank you for accepting my friend request! Hope you are having a good weekend ♥
ADMITTEDLY, I have a ravenous animal's hunger for...passion. I believe anything with too many rules, regulations & complications~it just ain't real, and can't be enjoyed by anyone~that shit is just an act that wastes everyone precious time, life & energy. The object is to go WITH someone, to your limits, go beyond them & redefine them everytime. I love making a woman lose control; its why I studied the female body & sexual technique, and practiced all since I was 16...still do. I had a bar to raise being in a wheelchair~you either blow every stereotype & notion out of the water and make them forget everything...or don't bother setting sail. Its how I live, applied it to everything, but ESPECIALLY to love & romance. You either make yourself indispensable, or you will be dispensed...haven't mastered keeping that last bit from happening when I venture beyond the moment though lol...
SO IT OCCURS TO ME I HAVE THREE OPTIONS:
1) Go full-blown reborn Porthos the Pirate [ I do hope you've read a Three Musketeers book or two, or this will sound wrong ] making myself hunter and socialite of wench, waitress & working ladies of such business. While I have no qualms with such PROFESSIONAL women, who do so as a life choice~times are different~I abhor drug-addiction, hate pimps, and if there is a tragedy in those eyes...I am endowed to see it in detail to say the least. That, and too many from my neighborhoods & background go that route~I've helped many come back from it...and so that complicates and makes me hesitant.
2) Enlist on & surf a "casual encounter" site(s), finding people of similar openness, appetite etc. Downside being; to run into the previously stated dislikes, inherent health risks to always beware of~and of course the fact that you never truly know who you're really dealing with until its too late. No one wants a Bobbitt, Vanilla Sky, Swim Fan, or Buffalo Bob type...got my own set o' walnuts...the aim is to keep them healthy & happy. The hope is to share that shade of joy, not ruin it. But once again, the times have changed~it has been suggested I am behind those times & THAT is the best and wisest step. I just don't know yet?
3) Find a gorgeous, equally insatiable woman [ GOOD LUCK lol ] who had/has an extreme crush on Wolverine, as his fiction, would my very real genetic strengths, unique gifts, and personality easier to accept/love. Downside being, HOW EASY IS THAT TO FIND? And sure, they think its all a joke, or entertaining at first~then they see it's not, it's actually my life & I'm a circus freak lol...then they get weirded and bounce, best case scenario. That, and it takes being far too open about who I am, and the life I've had...cant even guarantee how long this will stay up after saying what I have, but fuckitol.
THE QUESTION REMAINS & LINGERS THOUGH...what in SHINY-FUCK to do from here to solve my dilemma and woes...?
Thanks for the friendship! I hope you enjoy my work with the lovely ladies here! xo
You sound like my kind of guy! Thank you so much for the friend add as I look forward to communicating with you!
Then I too, look forward to communicating, hit me up any time. I am fatally blunt and boldly random, but I thrive on good conversation & banter. I am presently finishing a book in four days or less~successfully this time~but there are such things as worthy & welcome interruptions.
THINGS I GOTTA DO AS I GET FINANCIALLY COMFORTABLE & SUAVE:
1) Get new power wheelchair; punk or not, business folk don't roll in a hoopty~and yes y'all, there is a point when duck tape stops being cool, believe that.
2) Turn Foxhole crib into understated Bat-Cave of crippley awesomeness; equipped with fully stocked kitchen for ghetto medicine-man skills of pro-health badassery...oh yes indeed ;)
3) Set up online store to Sell "Superfox Blueberry Booster Tea," "Sunfox Cider," and other Sunfox Company products & Gentleman Casper photo work.
4) Buy the silkiest boxers money can buy, in all the colors to match the shiny button-up shirts I'll be living in. This brother is gonna put some little Chinese folks on the American Express AND through college!
5) Find the best artists to tat body up as planned & Spiritually needed ASAP (anyone who knows the state, and has suggestions/recommendations DO hit me up).
6) Leave the country & everything behind you~best believe I'm out like a track-suit y'all, six months or less!
7) Find the Lovely, if she ain't found you yet. I ain't a romantic much any more, but I still know even after all my travels & beauty I've seen...it ain't half as meaningful or valuable as it would've been, had I had a soul mate to share it with. I have officially wandered alone long enough...I dare say 12 years is too long to do anyone's spirit good lol.
WISH ME LUCK, AND HIT ME UP WITH ANY OTHER SUGGESTIONS YOU THINK SOUND GOOD, OR I MAY NEED OR BENEFIT FROM ;) ...I'M ALWAYS OPEN TO NEW & AWESOME THINGS.
Silky boxers oooo la la! If you find a good brand let me know lol
Hope life has been treating you well Casper!
Good madam, you are already covered in a skin far superior to silk~it is the truth of every woman who treasures their body. Believe me, I would far prefer the touch of that to any fabric in creation upon my traveler skin. Silk is but a comforter that offers half as much...and makes me look shiny-suave ;) but as you wish miss, I will.
I am sending you all sorts of starshine and luck and happy wishes, my friend! I adored reading your To-Do list. Damn awesome!
What timing you have. I been thinking of you lately! I left Ohio a couple months ago, and my only thought of present regret has been "damn, now I'll never get to work & hang with Avonelle" because wherever and however I end up, I won't be returning there. Thank you for the starshine :)
Thank you for accepting my friend request!
Thank you for the request...been kinda worried I might be losing my suaveness appeal since I haven't gotten much traffic lately lol. Its my pleasure though, you sound hella cool & interesting, and gorgeous to boot! ;) I look forward to communicating further, hit me up any time.
Aww! I love that you use the word "suave". I still think you are :) And.thank you so much for the kind words.
My phrase used to be silky-smooth till Zohan robbed it of its suaveness...but no one takes the smooth out the word suave lol ;) and believe me miss, when it comes to kind words~ my lips are gladly at your service.
Yeah, I like the word suave better. It rolls off the tongue nicely. You are too kind, sir. Thank you.
Happy Sunday dear! I hope today is full of inspiration!
Thanks darlin, you too. Still putting everything back together right now; till I decide between moving to CA or a couple other locations. It'll pretty much just be nomad photo work and random bold blasts on Twitter to drum up followers & fans for when I publish on Kindle. I'm all kinds of grass-roots style lately lol.
I am not as glamorous as you might imagine, by far, just determined. Determined and exhausted, but kneeling to it all just isn't an option.
Lol...those can sometimes be the best kind.
I'm afraid at present the most I have to offer are the things I paste up on this wall & the things that get going on my Facebook. You can check back here often as I tend to more open & have more fun. Though figuring out what makes me tick takes quite a bit and few achieve it ;) If you want to know anything further just ask and I'll answer you. Or ask for my email & you can hit me up there reliably
No one is harmless lol, but study away. If that's your aim however, I'd hit up my Facebook. If you know how to truly seek, there's things to find
My introductory book all about the monsters and maidens that sparked interest for you is free for a limited time. You may want to check it out ;)
Thank you so much for the add and the votes on my set! (http://www.zivity.com/models/Crystallized/photosets/1) I really appreciate it and kit! :)
Believe me darlin, I hold no shame for being low tech~ I just acknowledge how slow it can be, and don't dig being put behind schedule for months lol. I'm rather proud of the fact that I can write a huge amount of shit by hand actually~ makes my writing all kinds of pretty lol, chicks dig that ;)
I actually have tech, I just can't set up an office as long as I'm living out of a backpack lol.
well I hope you can set up shop soon then so you can get finished as fast as you want and need to :)
Well thankyou! If I can scratch it all down by hand, I got people who will help me get it all digified up nice :) Set up smooth or not, the truly gangster in this world ALWAYS find a way to keep there goals lol...just ask folk like Bugsy & Capone. Except Bugsy is more admirable in smarts; he died free & DIDN'T get syphilis ;)
Well said my friend! Ha! :)
Hello, wanted to drop in make sure I thank you for accepting my friend request. If you can spare a moment, let me know what you think of my sets!!
Sorry it took me so long to get to your new set, even more sorry once I saw it, wow! That was unbelievably hot...I am indeed speechless, but to be honest~only because if I said the things that inspired me to think about, I wouldn't be a gentleman. Soon as I get to a PC today, votes are yours guaranteed ;)
Oh wow thank you for your quick reply, I actually just wrote this message on your wall today it didn't take you anytime at all. I wish you an excellent weekend and thank you so much for the kind words xx
I would love your thoughts on my book that is presently free, and the updates at the top of my page. God knows I need reviews on Amazon, but no stress.
Tristan, thanks for adding me as a friend -- I'd love to hear what you think of my current sets… and if you have a favorite model you think I should collaborate with, next.
Sorry it took so long to get back to you, I havent had a chance to look at your work yet BUT i WILL I PROMISE...once I do I will see if I can play a good round of "match the styles" with those I have looked at if it can lend a hand to further awesome art. In the meantime though, honestly, hit up anyone on this wall, I have messaged/conversed with all up here and consider'm great people all around.
It is soo on my to-do list.
heya hun just wanted to stop in and say hi!! share a little <3 on your page!! and see how your new year is going!!
I can't believe it took me this long to get back to you! Things are hectic but really good; I'll soon be in a fully customized apartment for once, I'll. Be for sure publishing an epic written ENTIRELY in poems at the end of this month/beginning of next (if I decide to illustrate it with my tattoo artist brothr-in-law). So the year ain't kicked off bad at all. What about you? How've you been ;)
I've been pretty good....though I must say that my year doesn't seem to be going as good as yours so far :)
Message me and let me know what's been up ;) I care, woman! Lol.
lol its nothing bad just super busy without any real time for fun.
Hello to you as well new friend; tell me something awesome, and I will do the same!
I hope 2013 is off to a good start for you my friend!! Sending you lot's of love! :)
Its been a rollercoaster, but things are falling into place one way or the other. And you? We haven't talked in a while...be lying if I said I haven't missed the to and fro with your gorgeous self ;)
Hey sweetie please check out my new set "Swarovski" http://www.zivity.com/models/Sexy_Maria/photosets/19 and tell me what ya think! If you like it vote please! <3 xxoo Have a lovely Christmas!!!
Ps. You're Awesome!!
What would you guess my ethnicity is?
Off the top of my head? ;) Well, considering few people casually use Russian in things unless they can speak it, and most who can are in fact of that culture--that hits first. Your bone structure further suggests french, possibly dutch, and with a dash of Italian--but I doubt that. My money says that little bit of mysterious flare comes from Native tribe blood, not much, but there for sure. Good?
I checked out your work, its beautiful and very expressive in some subtle, beautiful, and artistic ways. My fave so far in my crunched time was "Lady of the stream." I liked "Swarovski" however I haqve a near phobia of pink lol--don't worry though--you pull it off quite well. ;)
PS: YOU are awesome, miss. I hope you had awesome holidays.
My lovely Tristan. <3 I am so grateful to have your support. apologies for the late response. November has been insane for me. how was yours?
FIXED UP THE STORES!! NEW LINK WHEN YOU HIT ZAZZLE ON THIS PAGE!!
TO SEE ALL THESE PRODUCTS all you have to do is scroll down, on the left column under my picture there is a CONTENT FILTER--just turn it to 'OFF' and you're golden! This is the place I put the more grown-up stuff, harsh humor, sex jokes, things that pop into my head when I'm inebriated or in a less-than PC mood (as if I ever am anyway) things like that. Enjoy either way, and thanks for your time! More is added almost every day, so subscribe, or check back often. All products can be put on other styles and different merchandise, so don't be afraid to explore your options, as the price changes according to your choice. Just make sure you read the sizing/product descriptions to the different styles. Different things fit different ways, but they give descriptions FYI: if it says it runs small, go 2 sizes up ;)
I've been in bad shape so I am catching up on updating and making new products as often as I can and will be all this month. Hopefully next month, I will be leaving and moving to a better situation. I got a few things in the works (won'y lie though) this is my unofficial "Gettin' Out The Hood" fund lol IT'S TOTALLY WORTH CHECKING OUT THOUGH so just hit the link under 'Find Me On'
~Gypsy J. Sunfox
Hey babe! Got a new set out. This one shows off who I am more than any set I've posted <3 I hope you like it:
Throwin' The Horns
Thank YOU for accepting! I will definitely check out your work, the SOONEST I get the chance ;)
Haven't heard from you in forever.... how are you? xoxo
Busy as all get-out darlin'
I polished off what would have been my first novella project~the first episode needed more~I am waiting on my co-writer now. I was hoping to have it well-circulated before the election, but will have to wait. As a result I had to come up with a project I can have edited and ready in 2 weeks or less~I did, so that will keep me busy for now. How are you? Do tell :)
Ive been ok ... honestly just terribly sick. Had some internet time, so thought I would go around to my fans whom I hadn't heard from in awhile and say hello. =)
Im rooting for you!
Thanks, doll. My deadline is 8 days from start to finish now, on account of my jaw being a tad fucked~it's all good though I always write crazy-fun shit on pircocet and such anyhow lol. Things ain't magic when you pull them off, unless they were impossible odds first, right?
^MAN! Have I upped the bar on my magic-making challenges lately, fuck-me! Bouncing round the country AND fuckin writing! Two projects by hand..all my digital work got sabotaged..but now all I need is in office within two weeks, and I'll be on the road to published fame in 2 months or less...if not, I'll just have to skip to CA first, and STILL be on schedule, why..how..cuz I'm a thug that way lol!
I think you can!!
Lol, thanks darlin'
One thing's for damn sure, if I pull this off "Alex & Emma" ain't got shit on me.
For sure!! Thats great!!
Actually, after recent things I came to realize that I am what I am, and my life is what it is--most difficulties seen came from trying to change those. All things have their chance and time in this life, the hardest thing to do may be accepting when that as passed, and forcing oneself to see things as they are.
Happy Labor Day!
Heya how have you been hun??
I'm still breathing, so better than I could be.
That sounds about like how I've been feeling.
How's the record spinning for you, doll?
Meh. Just having a lot of things on my plate in the way of school and work and such......and then me and my man just broke up.
If there is one thing I know, it's that fools abound in this country--so without a doubt in my mind, I say it was his loss.
Yeah I'm pretty sure that it is his loss lol. I mean his brother says as much. His brother is also pretty sure that hes done the same thing as he did and thats leave the girl of his dreams for no reason and then wait years to get her back lol
I left lots of folk, plenty of times--never had a choice in the matter. Even then in my experience, nobody's that patient without losing part of themself, no matter how much they wish to be. Much respect and encouragement if you are; I just walk a way that says when you make a decision you gotta have the brass to live with it, and leave others to their peace. Never ws much an expert on love though